There are two main types of dangerous people. Some individuals directly harm others (such as thieves, thugs, or rapists), and others have the knowledge and power to do whatever they want and decide to use it as a benefit to achieving something.
Many people are wrong about who they should be afraid of. The first type of dangerous people is easy to control. The government is aware of who they are and has the power to control them with rules and jail.
However, the second one is more difficult to manage. They have the control to destroy a government and change the mentality of the masses.
We pay attention to powerful people because we believe they can create a change. And we like to know who can control us. People with power can influence the behavior of others, change rules, and make big impacts.
In this article, I will show you five simple ways to be a dangerous human being and achieve the power to control yourself and others.
Control how you (and others) react to everything.
When you allow people to trigger your emotions, you give them power over you. A person who knows how to control their impulses and does not respond immediately to attacks or situations is dangerous because nobody knows what can impact them, so nobody knows how to control them.
When you learn to understand how others react to different situations, you have the power to make them act in a certain way by making them react to something.
For example, you know that your boss always gets in a good mood and accepts everything when he receives flowers in the morning, and you want additional vacations. What do you think you should do to make sure that he is happy when you go to ask him for the request? Send him flowers.
Learn how to earn people.
One of the main reasons for understanding how people react to different situations is to know how to win them over. The example above shows how knowing your boss’s reaction to something that makes him happy helped you win him over when you needed to ask for a vacation.
When you know how to earn people first, you will be the first person they think of when they have something good to give, and they will usually be happy to assist you in any situation you have.
In most of the resources, you will find that learning how to earn people is a matter of giving them something they want and being there for them when they need something. It also helps a lot to treat them with respect no matter who he is.
Don’t show others your life unless you are earning money with it.
Many people love to show their life on social media. But unless you have a private account with just your family and loved ones who want to hear about you 24/7 or are earning money with it, there is not much advantage to showing what you are doing or what is happening with you.
This is because people can use everything they know about you to their advantage, and it’s easier to control people when you know enough about them.
Even Google, Twitter, and Facebook use everything they know about you to show you ads based on your interest. And they know that information because you give them the power to do it.
When you’re hard to find, you’re hard to control. Therefore you become a dangerous person for anyone who wants power over you.
Show confidence even if you don’t have self-esteem.
A person with insecurities and low self-esteem is a person easy to control. That’s because they think they don’t have control over their lives or what happens to them and think they can’t do big things like others, so they expect others to guide them.
But even though everybody has their insecurities and things they want to change about themselves, you need to control how you show yourself to the world.
If you have low self-esteem and show the world how bad you feel about yourself and your skills, others will see it as an opportunity to control you. However, if you are aware of your debilities but show yourself as a person who is in control of his life and decisions, nobody could use that to harm you.
Invest in yourself.
We have all heard the saying, “knowledge is power.” The more you know about something, the more power you have over it. Therefore, investing in yourself helps you have more power over everything around you.
Many of us have heard conspiratorial ideas about how the government wants to keep us ignorant. The explanation behind these ideas is simply because the less someone knows about something, the less power they have over it. A president can say that 2+2 equals 5, and if I don’t know math, I have no choice but to believe him.
However, knowing that 2+2 is 4 allows me to question who I have in power and want to make a change.
Something that helps me put this into practice daily is simply not giving an opinion without reading at least 15 minutes about it. If I’m going out with a group of friends, I research common social topics that I know they can talk about to stay in control of the conversation.
Others admire and respect people who speak with confidence and show that they know the subject they are talking about.
Final thoughts
You are dangerous when you control your life, thoughts, and actions because others can’t use you to their advantage. You will know what will be the best for you even if others try to influence you, and you will know exactly what is the best for you.
The more you know about something, the more power you have over it, so find a way to meet those around you while only giving them what they need to know about you.
Invest in yourself, in your knowledge, opinions, and health. In this way, you will have total control of what others want for you, and you will have the possibility to think about what is best for you.
Everyone has insecurities. When you show them as a weakness, people can use them against you; however, when you are aware of them, but you show yourself as a self-confident person, others will not be able to use them against you.
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